Here's a guy trying to explain - Why we won't miss our unsaved loved ones in Heaven.
http://p085.ezboard.com/fapostolicchristiandiscussionfrm8.showMessage?topicID=342.topic
Its so sad to see the twisting...distorted things that the mind has to encounter to reconcile the teaching of Eternal Torment with God's holiness and love for mankind.
Peace, AJ