I try to take a lower seat, like Jesus suggested. To be asked, "Come up higher" is so much easier than having to be publicly told to vacate a position and be put down in rank for someone else who really belongs where you assumed you did.
In the gatherings we're supposed to defer to one another as unto the Lord. Ideally, we all understand the only authority in the kingdom of God is God.
As far as my experience in life, I seem to be much more accustomed to wearing a cross. I remember something Madam Guyon said, "Everywhere I looked there were crosses.
But these crowns! Am I supposed to have three heads? Isn't there something in the Word about cutting them off so one little one can come up in their place and speak great things? I do so love to hear about great things.