When you said the words "bible college", I knew what came next. Sad to say, most, if not all organized religious institutions have so hardened their hearts to the HS that they are incapable of receiving any revelation of truth in general and of UR in particular.
If they TRULY believe 95% of all people are going to be tortured in hell forever, then they are guilty of not fulfilling at least one of the two commandments Jesus said the 10 hung on, ie. love thy neighbor as thyself.
You can bet that if they had one foot on a banana peel and the other one over the "pit", and could see the same, they'd be praying and screaming for mercy for themselves, at the top of their lungs. Yet their reactions to others being in that supposed state, range from apathy to joyful anticipation at the prospect and in some cases, even a desire to throw them in! Really sounds like loving thy neighbor as thyself, doesn't it? NOT
Hang in there and keep studying to show yourself approved.....and love them where they're at, because but for the grace of God, there go "we".....Blessings....