willieH: Hi Paul...

You know... I find it interesting that those who believe in "free will" often get really uptight or upset... when confronted by those who believe in Complete Divine Sovereignty... I wonder why this is? Something to think about... 
Hi there WillieH,
I do think about that and the answer is that a persons emotional reaction to anything is irrevalent to it's truth.
I can agree with that, although, emotion is often a response that emerges from, and of one, ...in an insecure position...
If one is confident in the Lord in where one stands, and has founded that place BY HIM, with HIS
WORD, ...how may another easily shake that place?
There was admittedly a day (many of them for that matter

), in which I, on a personal level, had not found establishment for what I believe, by MY OWN personal study and research of God's
WORD... rather, I had gained via offering my ears to hearsay, or invested a respect in another that what he/she was saying was actually so... Since I went away from that environment (church) in early 2001, to an EXTREMELY ISOLATED place (for 3 months) called Dutch Harbor, Alaska... Some great revelations took place...
First, it really revealed the true state of concern and love, the "brothers and sisters" of my church (of which we had been members almost 20yrs) had for my wife and I... which was literally NON EXISTANT... revealing their "LOVE" for what it was... SHALLOW, unsupportive, and basically anything but LOVE ...
As much as this really "hurt"... it was part of the STRENGTH that GOD was giving to us in this moment... for only HE was there to LOVE us...
Second, with much time on my hands, I began to research the teachings which I found in question (such as HELL, ET, Eternal Separation, etc.) in the "church" doctrine... and
Third, the isolation gave me an opportunity to see clearly that which was before me in Scripture without anyone or any entity, presenting OUTSIDE information to distort it...

In the last 7.75 years of a 33 year walk... I have gained, through a dedicated, continuous and diligent search (that is a daily on-going matter)... a place where discussions of such beliefs I find contrary as, ..."free will", trinity, rapture, Eternal Separation from God, etc... does not shake me emotionally whatsoever, ...For the foundation I have to stand upon is the
Rock, without necessitating the need for making any Additions, Subtractions, or Assumptions... to implement, establish or embellish that stand.

Whether intentional or not, the question you propose is most often asked only to cast the emotional light of favor onto a persons own beliefs rather than remain within the factual confines of scripture.
There have been so many verses posted which not only NOTE the Sovereignty, but ESTABLISH mans course as already done...
THAT is the "confines" of Scripture... When someone is set in a particular mindset, they will NOT recognize what Scripture SAYS, rather, they will garnish it with their mindset in order to maintain that mindset...
Reading Holy writings does NOT enable understanding... only the SPIRITUAL revelation of the TRUTH, performed by GOD in the heart of the individual, shall avail it...
So even if argued from an ILLOGICAL position, the TRUTH of a given premise will still, NOT be established in the UNREVEALED mind... even after sufficient proofs which debunk that "illogical" stance have been adaquately presented.
There are people who do not believe in any kind of freedom of the will that will get uptight at those who believe there is. Does that mean by your own words that you should now think about that? 
I do not ever get upset at anyone who does not align with my observations... It is in misbehavioral name calling or personal attack that irritation will arise in anyone... regardless of the TRUTH of the discussion...
It is not up to me to reveal anything to anyone... it is my duty to present that which I believe, and then leave it in God's hands to either WORK to change my observation's incorrect position, or to use that which I have presented to, in part move another into the light...
These kinds of reactions in human beings happen all the time in any situation you can muster up.
Paul... I don't see our discussions as personal... I see them as GOD working in all of us, sanding the edges, molding the framework of our understanding... It is as I just said, when some shall emotionally fire the arrows of hurt toward another because their beloved belief has been assaulted, ...often results in the breakdowns we have with one another at times...
The Lord said that some would LOVE the DARKNESS more than the LIGHT... and because that DARKNESS is BELOVED, its LOVERS shall come to its aid in defense of it... often emotionally...
I do not say this to offend, only to propose a view for the readers to contemplate.
In the same spirit of inoffense, have I said, what I just did...
