I agree! Well our priority is to the family of believers but the damnationalists almost make it seem as if we should distance ourselves a bit from the rest of mankind (while pretending to "love" them and give them the "good news")... While we don't wanna associate with people who make us stumble in the faith, I think it makes us love ALL people more if we don't brand them as damnation-borne (before we even preach to them)....
As someone who's embraced orthodoxy, I resented most people of the "world" for not seeing the "truth"... but as in Romans 2, I am no different if I judge them.. ;) let's invite them to the Victorious Gospel and yes, brothers and sisters encompass all humanity.