To anyone who may be reading this thread, I removed my previous post before the last response because I felt led to do so. Please forgive me if anything I've said in this thread has not been worthy of the Savior's name. I'm really not here to argue, and I've argued enough. At times I will state what I understand to be sound doctrine, I've said what I believe, and all us will give account to God for ourselves.
I believe God loves us all, I don't think people who have yet to be shown UR are freaks or depraved, they're like you and I, in need of mercy and grace and to be led by the Savior. I have my own faults and sinful attitudes to work on without struggling past the point of usefulness with anyone else's.
God's blessings to all.