I don't go to church - the reason - - the church's defininition of church and mine differ quite a bit - In my belief, a church is a congregation, a body, made up of believers, each sharing as the Holy Spirit leads them, and in prayer and supplication, and praising God when the Holy Spirit is not leading them to speak - In my opinion, in this type of atmophere, the Holy Spirit would work wonders.
As opposed to current churches, where everyone sits and listens to one person explain to them what they should and should not be doing (now keep in mind, many of these are wolves). Speaking non-stop about the flesh. Talking about which things they must believe doctrinally (when in fact, wisdom and knowledge should be set aside if it is dividing the Body of Christ, and it has, into thousands of different denominations, if it is dividing the Body of Christ then it isn't that wise, each man should suffering his weaker Brother). As it is though, it is so ravenous that to suffer your weaker brother in many of todays churches would mean subjecting yourself to quite alot of abuse. I do not see alot of spiritual growth occuring in this atmoshpere, and if the Holy Spirit did move someone to speak, everybody would look at them weird and think they were being rude by interrupting the pastor, minister, priest, ect....-- I don't claim to have the awnser for the sad state of the Church(es), but I do see God reuniting the Church and taking all of the ravenous wolves out of the way.
Anyway, whether right or wrong, this is how I see it right now.
Sometimes an example explains much more than my words could:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0FMZiEmM14